"The Pretender:" Dreams Versus Ordinary Life

June 30, 2025 00:05:14
"The Pretender:" Dreams Versus Ordinary Life
Heart Banter by David Gittlin
"The Pretender:" Dreams Versus Ordinary Life

Jun 30 2025 | 00:05:14

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Show Notes

This song is about a man who gives up his dreams to live a life of routine monotony due to the crushing necessity of earning a living.

In a 1997 interview with Mojo magazine, Browne said of this song: “I’m a big fan of ambiguity and its bountiful rewards, and ‘The Pretender’ is two things at once. It’s that person in all of us that has a higher ideal, and the part that has settled for compromise, like Truffaut says, there’s the movie you set out to make, and there’s the one you settle for. But in a more serious sense, ‘The Pretender’ is about 1960s idealism —the idea that life is about love, brotherhood, justice, social change, and enlightenment. These concepts were prevalent as our generation reached its stride, and later, we settled for something quite different. So when I say ‘Say a prayer for The Pretender,’ I’m talking about those people who are trying to convince themselves that there really was nothing to that idealism.” (excerpt from an article by SongFacts.com)

The boldface type is about a lyric in the song I could relate to most, since I lived through that period: “I want to know what became of the changes we waited for love to bring. Were they only the fitful dreams of some greater awakening?”

Here’s my cover of “The Pretender.”

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[00:00:20] I'm gonna rent myself a house in the shade of a freeway Gonna pack my lunch in the and go to work each day and when the evening rolls around I go on home and lay my body down when the morning light comes streaming in get up and do it again say it again I want to know what became of the change we waited for love to bring Were they only the fitful dreams Some greater awakening I've been aware of the time going by let's say in the end it's a wake of an eye when the morning light comes streaming in we'll get up and do it again Amen Caught between the longing for love and the struggle for the legal tender where the Terrans sing and the church bells ring and the churchman pounds asunder where the veterans dream of the fight Fast asleep at the traffic light and the children solemnly wait for the ice cream vendor out into the cool of evening strolls a pretender he knows it all his hopes and dreams beginning and end Ah, the laughter of the lovers as they run through the night Leaving nothing for the others but to cheese off and fight and tear at the world with all their might by the ships bearing their dreams sail at a side I'm gonna find myself a girl who can show me what laughter and we'll fill in the missing colors of each other's paint by number dreams and then we'll put our dark glasses on and we'll make love until our strength is gone and when the morning light comes streaming in I'll get up and do it again get it up again I'm gonna be a happy idiot and struggle for the legal tender Worthy idiots they came Lay their claim to the heart and the soul of the spender and believe in whatever may lie in those dreams that money can buy where true love tell me the contender Are you there? [00:04:23] Say a prayer for the pretender who started out so young and strong Only to surrender Set prayer for the pretender Are you there for the Pretender? [00:04:54] Separate for the Pretender.

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